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Our First Year of Marriage

One year ago today, I married my best friend. He is busy flying planes in a land far away from here right now, but that gives me the opportunity to reminisce when I would otherwise be snuggling with him in front of our wedding video. In the year that we have been married, much has changed. It has been by far the most difficult year of my life, and I am lucky that I can say it has also been the best. This was our year:

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On February 18, 2012, we got married in a beautiful outdoor ceremony near Corpus Christi, Texas. Our wedding went by in a whirlwind, but the important part is that I woke up the next morning beside my husband and we began our adventure together. At the time, we were living in Corpus Christi while Casey went through the multi-engine portion of flight school, and I worked for a local staffing firm.

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Several weeks after our wedding, Casey received the lovely golden wings he had worked so hard for, and then he went off to California for two weeks of survival training. Shortly after that, he moved to New Bern, North Carolina, for the final stage of flight training (this time in a simulated C-130).  I did not accompany Casey to North Carolina because the military would not pay for us to move there, I wanted to continue working at my job, and we had recently learned we would be moving to Okinawa. While the Marine Corps had separated Casey and I before, the pain of saying goodbye to him and remaining behind was something I was somehow unprepared for. I was lucky to have kind and generous co-workers; but being only recently married, I was mostly isolated from the military community. It was a trying time for both of us, and I was forced to learn many new things I would have avoided had I had the choice. I did not enjoy caring for the lawn, repairing my car when it broke down, running Barley and Hops to the emergency vet when they consumed poison or got stung by scorpions, or dealing with our neglectful landlord when our AC and appliances broke. I’d like to think that all of that and the sushi dates I had with myself made me a stronger person; but I would be entirely dishonest if I said that I enjoyed the overall experience.

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I was able to visit Casey once in the lovely little town of New Bern, where they have these adorable bears all over town. In August, Casey and I began our Farewell America tour. We had already said goodbye to my friends and family in Virginia; so this time we met in Vermont, where we spent some wonderful time with my family. Saying goodbye to my father and baby sisters was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.

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From there, we flew down to New Bern and packed Casey’s things into Brandy (his precious Mazda Speed 3), and headed home to Corpus Christi. We stopped in Meridian, Mississippi, to visit some of our awesome jet pilot friends before we made it back to Corpus. We spent a week or so there, moved out of our home, and packed our fluffy children into the car. You’ve already heard of our road trip to San Diego to say goodbye to Casey’s family, followed by our trip to Seattle and then epic plane ride to Okinawa. Long story short: we moved across the planet. Nbd.

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Once in Okinawa, we lived in a hotel for a week (separated from Barley and Catbeast), then moved into our concrete palace in a tower on Camp Kinser, in the southern part of Okinawa. It took awhile for our belongings to arrive, (most of which will remain in storage in Texas until we return to the US) but we have done our best to make Okinawa home. I’ve been adjusting to life here and trying to figure out in which direction to take my career. Casey has enjoyed flying the C-130, and has already had the opportunity to travel to Hawaii, mainland Japan, Thailand, Korea, the Philippines, and the Marshall Islands. I miss him while he is gone, but I am so proud of all his hard work and am so happy to see him finally reaping its rewards. In between those trips, we’ve tried to take advantage of his free time to explore the wonderful food and beautiful sites Okinawa has to offer. I promise that more on that will come in the next few weeks.

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Spending holidays, birthdays, and an anniversary apart has been difficult, but I never take our time for granted. The little moments that we share cooking dinner together, watching him wrestle with Barley and Hops, exploring this wonderful island together: all of these I have an acute appreciation for, knowing the feeling of a cold bed and an (almost) empty home. Marriage is not easy, and we have much to learn about how to deal with such important issues as cold feet in the bed and where exactly we should place our wet towels. I’m just lucky that I have Casey to share this amazing, at times chaotic, life with. I am sure we will continue to face obstacles in the years ahead, but I know that together (or not), we will make it through this adventure and come out stronger and more prepared for the next one. Happy anniversary, babe.

Always, Amanda

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An Okinawan Flower-thon

Two weeks ago, Casey and I decided to make good use of the little time he had left with me this month (he has been on a detachment off the island for most of February) and visit a few of Okinawa’s flower festivals. The Okinawans take nature very seriously, and their appreciation of flowers is both fun and admirable. We went first to Kitanagusuku, an area not too far from where we live, towards the Southern end of Okinawa; where the Sunflower festival was in full effect. With three beautiful fields of sunflowers, local vendors, and a singing troupe of face-painted Okinawans marching through the street; it was a fun event!

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After spending time in the sun with these gorgeous sunflowers, we headed up north past the city of Nago to see the International Orchid Show! Apparently people had flown in from all over the world with the most beautiful orchids to showcase their hard work and the stunning diversity of the orchid plant. I’ve never been much of an orchid girl, but I was amazed by how perfect these flowers were. They almost looked fake! The show had everything from potted orchids to beautiful bouquets to huge displays of orchid forests! I’ll let the pictures speak for themselves (although I must say they did not quite capture it)!Image

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ImageAfter the Orchid Festival, we headed back down to Nago city to Nakijin-jo castle to see the Cherry Blossom festival! The cherry blossoms were not cooperating for the Okinawans this year, so many of the trees had not yet bloomed. However, the ones that had were gorgeous! I’ll post more pictures of the castle later, but for now, enjoy these gorgeous cherry blossoms!

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We were exhausted after a long day of exploring the island, viewing millions of flowers. Through our Flower-thon, we came to appreciate the diversity of Okinawan plant life, in addition to enjoying the day with each other before Casey had to plunge back into preparing for his month-long trip. I miss him, so it’s nice to look back on a great day! Wishing you all happiness and the prettiest flowers the world has to offer! Talk to you soon!

Always, Amanda

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